“When I do something I’m all in or all out”.
Well, actually…. You’re not.
See the problem is, being “all in or all out”, is not a real thing.
Because think about, if you were all in, wouldn’t you do everything you could to get it done?
And I’m not saying be perfect, but no matter what find a way to make something happen.
See people who say they are all in or all out, are really just anticipating future fear.
Fear of failing. Fear of not seeing it through. Fear of getting out of their comfort zone.
And by saying they can be all in or all out, it creates a safety net for them to then, when they feel like quitting, being able to and not feeling bad.
They are making up justifications for things that haven’t even happened yet.
I strongly urge you to listen to this podcast.
I talk in depth about this, and give my thoughts on alternative ways of thinking around this mentality.
Let me know if you enjoyed it. And please leave a 5 star rating and review on the podcast. It helps me out a ton.
Talk soon. -E.